one of the weirder norms i've seen people mention on here is that a locked reply to a non-locked post is suspicious
@Deiru "how dare this person not want me to see this random interaction they're having with a person i don't even know >:("
@hierarchon I just try to keep a mental list of people who'd be upset by this and not do that to them.
@hierarchon People seem to think you have something to hide or wanna hide your post from their frends or whatever.